An idealistic view of love and relationships can be problematic as Venus merges with the South Node. Some Aquarians will cling to a rosy picture of what could or should happen in a romance rather than dealing with reality. Likewise, you might be attached to what once was rather than what is. With outspoken Eris in the picture, someone may challenge you to wake up and smell the coffee. The vibe can get heated as you attempt to talk things through. However, having a dialogue is the only way to find out where things stand. You may have questions that need answers. Seize the moment and speak up.